Build a marriage worth fighting for

Become the wife of his dreams

Become the wife he desires

Bring the desire back into your marriage


Hi, I’m Amy

Wife to my favorite person in the world, mama to a very busy little boy, and Christ-pursuer.

I got married at the ripe age of 19 and never looked back. Times have been tough but God is good, and I’m passionate about helping other wives craft beautiful marriages that they can’t get enough of.

Join us on this journey as we work towards taking failing marriages and making them something worth desiring.


I know what you’re thinking, “Is this just another marriage site that’s going to tell me to ignore my husband’s problems and be a better wife & our marriage will be perfect?” 

Not in the least.

The things you’ll find on Becoming Desirable aren’t just opinions or thoughts, they’re articles with proof. They’re backed by science, and they’re based on the way that we function as human beings.

Marriages can’t survive on the feel-good-fluff. 

They need a solid foundation, windows that don’t let heat out, and toilets that don’t leak. And that’s what I’m here to help you with… building a marriage that’s tougher than an aging rhinoceros’ skin.

Are you ready to start seeing changes in your marriage?